Usually, it’s running from one place to the next, chasing career advancements, raising kiddos, doing the basics of life, and going to church and community events.

But rarely do you see couples investing in the moments of their everyday.

They just do the do.

Where do you fall in that category?

Are you one who does just that; letting life run you and reacting to every twist and turn?

Or are you one who settles into the moment and makes a statement by your presence?

If you want an incredible marriage, it starts with everyday moments. Renew your love every day.

The K.I.S.S. ~ R.E.N.E.W. your love every day!

Now one thing I want you to understand is that the moments that made you as a couple can be good or bad.

Because it’s in the moments that you choose how you react or respond.

Life isn’t about all rainbows and roses. There are many gray skies, too.

Yet, this is a reminder that life isn’t about all the things you do, but how your time is spent.

Your PRESENCE is the key.

You could not travel your entire life as a couple and still be fully in love and devoted to each other.

You could not have as much money as you wish, but if you do what you can together with what you do have, money isn’t the issue. You’re presence is.

So how do you start with the everyday moments and be present?

1. Refresh the day. There are new mercies every morning. So don’t pack the bags from yesterday and drag them with you. Yesterday is gone. Today is new. Refresh the day.
2. Explore the opportunity. Your adventure awaits with your partner. Make it a new adventure every day. Don’t see things the same way. Try to make your sweetheart laugh at the mundane things.
3. Name what matters. You need to know what your focus is for your sweetheart and your marriage.
4. Express your emotions. You can’t stuff your emotions down. That will cause turmoil in the future. But learn how you feel, and how you can express things to your spouse, so they are received in a manner that is not from a threat, but out of love.
5. Welcome the moments. If you aren’t seeking, you won’t find. Seek out the moments to create your now as a couple.

RENEW your love every day!

PRAYER: May your heart be connected to your actions, emotions, and responses in your everyday. Be on the lookout for those moments to laugh more, live longer, and love deeper.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“